shollymannon:

kali-politiks:

valkyriethunderbitch:

theconcealedweapon:

lilyvonpseudonym:

terefah:

i feel like this is quite relevant rn

Seriously, cis lesbians. We do not want unwilling people to sleep with us. We just want you to stop talking about our genitals and saying we’re men.

There’s a very big difference between “I’m not interested.” and “I’m not interested, so your identity is invalid, and no one else can ever be interested either, and you’re gross, and I’ll constantly go out of my way to announce how gross you are, and you’re a rapist just for existing.”

TERFs are willfully ignorant to that.

Also, like, almost all my sexual experiences with cis women have involved being pressured to do sexual things that I didn’t want to do, and that’s true for a LOT of trans women I know.

This is something that, in my opinion, doesn’t get acknowledged or talked about enough considering how much time trans women have to spend defending ourselves against baseless accusations of predatory behavior.

yall are fucking INSANE

nobody’s saying this: “I’m not interested, so your identity is invalid, and no one else can ever be interested either, and you’re gross, and I’ll constantly go out of my way to announce how gross you are, and you’re a rapist just for existing.”

lesbians don’t wanna suck your nasty cock. that’s it. some women are GAY and don’t want your dick!! cry about it!! IF someone is hopping on your penis, it’s because they are bi. No actual lesbian would have sex with a male sex organ. It’s not an identity, it’s a reality. Sex is not a commodity or resource to which everyone is entitled –

Denying it for any or no reason cannot ever be oppressive!

‘Seriously, cis lesbians. We do not want unwilling people to sleep with us. We just want you to stop talking about our genitals and saying we’re men.“

Just say lesbians. And yes you fucking do want unwilling people to sleep with you. otherwise the cotton ceiling WOULDN’T EXIST. Stop pressuring women to sleep with your MALE bodies and then we’ll stop talking about your cocks. 

“trans women have to spend defending ourselves against baseless accusations of predatory behavior.”
Yeah. You’re SO close to getting it. Maybe stop being predatory towards lesbians and trying to overtake women’s spaces?

bleck. just fucking STOP

also “we’re not saying you HAVE to sleep with us, you’re just a bad person if you don’t want to” is literally not an argument, and neither is “lesbians can totally be attracted to males, sexual orientation has nothing to do with biological sex and sex characteristics, its all about experiencing sexual attraction towards invisible gender feels because thats totally possible and how humans work”

these sentiments still create social pressure for lesbians to be sexually accepting of male bodies and its completely unacceptable

here are receipts for this trend of blatant homophobia within the “queer community” that the lesbians being demonized by OP are talking about:

“But no-one is saying lesbians HAVE to date/have sex/have a relationship with a transwoman!”

5 Things I Was Told During Conversion Therapy (And 5×5 Times TRA Rhetoric Reminded Me of It)

Get The L Out

Here is the queer theory perspective on the situation:

Your Dating ‘Preferences’ Might Be Discriminatory – Riley J Dennis

“Gay men often pride themselves on being disgusted by vaginas,
and the same goes for lesbian women with penises. It’s difficult
because some queer people have built their sexual identities on these
repulsions, but I don’t think they’re innate at all.”

You heard it here first folks, same-sex attraction is not innate! And somehow gender critical feminists are still framed as being the conservative side of the debate. The whole argument for trans-inclusive lesbianism rests on completely homophobic premises.

The Cotton Ceiling Is Real and It’s Time for All Queer and Trans People to Fight Back –
Avory Faucette

“
 I care that you don’t bother to interrogate the origins of your
phallus-based distaste for trans women, and think about whether it’s
actually a dislike of the organ that’s happening here or whether
transphobia and a refusal to view trans women as women is involved”

Yup, lesbians need to “interrogate” their inherent same-sex attraction that science has proven again and again that they have no control over. Same-sex attraction is just a socially conditioned state based on prejudice, nothing to do with innate sexual orientation at all! Ty so much queer theory this is just what lesbians needed, to feel more broken inside! Not like our heteronormative phallocentric society does that more than enough already!!

Lesbians are female homosexuals and homosexuality, like all sexual orientations (of which there are three, count em, three, by the way), is based on primary and secondary sex characteristics and not the abstract, immaterial concept of “gender identity”

Here is what science has to say on homosexuality:

Neuroimaging study shows brain activity corresponds
to

self-stated sexual orientations

“
As expected, heterosexual men showed greater ventral striatum responses
to erotic stimuli of women and homosexual men showed greater ventral
striatum responses to erotic stimuli of men, while bisexual men
displayed a distinctly bisexual neural response.”

Hmmmm they
became aroused at the sight of primary and secondary sex
characteristics, almost like that’s what sexual attraction is based on
or something

The biological basis of human sexual orientation: is there a role for epigenetics?

“The vast majority of the population is heterosexual, that is, they are
attracted to members of the opposite sex. However, a small but
significant proportion of people are bisexual or homosexual and
experience attraction to members of the same sex…
We conclude by describing a hypothetical framework that unifies genetic
and epigenetic explanations of sexual orientation and the continued
challenges facing sexual orientation research.”

Gender
is a social construct, if sexual attraction was based on gender
there would be no biological link, the brain has specific processes and
mechanisms for recognizing sex characteristics and becoming aroused, its
how we reproduced back before gender even existed

Sexual Orientation, Controversy, and Science

“
Scientific findings do not support the notion that sexual orientation
can be taught or learned through social means. And there is little
evidence to suggest that non-heterosexual orientations become more
common with increased social tolerance.”

Again, gender is social
and not biological, if people experienced sexual attraction on the basis
of gender then science WOULD support learned homosexuality i.e. nurture
rather than nature

in conclusion, lesbians are literally incapable of being attracted to males, that’s what being a lesbian is, when male people create a vicious trend of attacking same-sex attracted females for not being romantically and sexually inclusive of them, those women have EVERY RIGHT to call our that behavior for what it is, which is narcissistic male entitlement to unwilling female bodies

cutekittensarefun:

Smoothie demands your attention.

teratomarty:

dreamingofmotherhood93:

Just an FYI for those in the US with insurance issues

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