technically-not-a-terf:

probablyaterf:

honestly imagine enjoying your entire life as a white middle class man and being afforded all the privilege that entails – getting a good career, being taken seriously your whole life, and then coming out as trans. And demanding women take you in as their sister, and saying that you’re oh so oppressed for having lived ‘in the closet’ your entire life. And divorcing your poor wife who has no idea how her husband could be hiding this from her. And of course everyone still takes your side because you’re a. man!!!

More like you force your wife to take part in your kinks, convince her to identify as bi/gay in order to validate your new lesbian identity, and demand she tell you how you’re just as much of a woman as her even after she birthed your children and spent the last 20 years cleaning your dirty underwear. Then when she tries to leave everyone tells her how she should feel guilty for not being more supportive and open-minded.