auntiewanda:

cecaeliawitch:

millennialsfabwlw:

cis-ftm:

politely-discourse:

Prepare yourself

If you don’t think genital preferences are problematic

You’d better keep your mouth shut when white ppl say they have racial preferences

They are the exact same thing

You are judging your attraction to a person over an aspect of their body they cannot control. Something that has nothing to do with their personality, interests, politics, etc.

If “I won’t date trans people” isn’t transphobic, then “I won’t date black people” isn’t racist.

(Hint because people are fucking ignorant and will probably not understand this: The point is that BOTH are messed up and neither should be acceptable)

Please tell me this post is satire

It isn’t, unfortunately. Genderists always use the “it’s the same thing as not dating black/ ppl of colour” argument, not understanding how fuck up that is. Skin colour doesn’t play any role in sexual orientation, we are gay, bi or straight regardless of skin colour. However the sex of a person does play a big role in sexual orientation, lesbians and straight men won’t be interested by penises, gay men and straight women won’t be interested by vaginas, a simple fact but genderists do not understand nor respect us.

op thinks black women are as distinct and separate from white women as men are from women

Homosexuality is messed up, wow what a hot take no one has ever said before. 

bitter-badfem-harpy:

radicallyaligned:

One of the most harmful parts of girlhood is how we learn to use our bodies as currency.

Small smiles, clasped hands, and batted eyes gain us capital. We’re rewarded. We are allowed a snack or extra time outside if we agree to hug our caretakers. Our parents promise us dessert if we allow the great aunt to kiss us on the cheek. We begin to learn. And we grow a little and then it’s touching a male classmate on the elbow to convince him to help you on a question instead of ignore you, or making downcast eyes at a male teacher to ask sweetly for the bathroom pass so you’re more likely to have your bodily functions believed.

Then we age more and it’s low cut shirts so the cashier at the theater doesn’t check to see if you’re 17, and doing sex acts with your first boyfriend before you’re ready because you know if you don’t some other girl will and you know the more you do the longer he’ll stay.

It’s seeing TV shows and movies where the female spy/superhero/Jane Doe has to seduce the villain for information/entry/survival. It’s seeing TV shows and movies where if the man pursues you long enough/the hero saves your life/the outcast proves his worth then he deserves a kiss/taken to the bedroom/your hand in marriage. It’s the good and the bad guys having access to female bodies, your body, for different reasons. Its learning that you can use your female form to reward or deny, like it’s a sweet treat and not the thing you reside in, you yourself.

And this mentality, this commodification of our physical selves, its damaging. It warps how we view ourselves and our interactions with the world. It puts a “for sale” sign on us, and it says we can be bought, and we are left scrambling to set the price.

I was five when I learned how to properly wiggle your ass at a pool table to distract your Male opponent.

I was eleven when halter tops started selling more raffle tickets.

I was fifteen when I learned that the more sheer my white t-shirt was when I was waitressing the better my tips were.

I still laugh at jokes that aren’t funny and remember how to angle my hips and my head to ask a man to get something off a higher shelf. It’s inescapable.

an-angry-lesbian:

fairypage:

fairypage:

this is a straight couple. it’s straight. you’re in a heterosexual relationship. there is nothing remotely “queer” about this in the slightest whatsoever. jesus h christ

this is getting comments again. it would probably be interesting for you to learn that after the girl in this photo broke up with the boy shown, she:

  • got a girlfriend
  • referred to her as “mystery girl” and never used her actual name
  • never showed her face on camera but constantly used the fact she had a gf to queerbait in her video titles (eg. this was one of her christmas videos)
  • kept talking about “going on a date with a cute girl”, etc
  • despite “mystery girl” (her name was alyssa) actually coming out to her family because of the relationship, still never showed her face on camera
  • broke up with alyssa just a few weeks before christmas, claimed she “just wasn’t attracted to her”
  • the only reason why we know this is because alyssa’s sister verified herself and then spilt all the tea on a forum somewhere (link goes to a video with the relevant screenshots)
  • then jillian vessey/pixielocks, the youtuber in question, got another boyfriend in like spring/summer 2018. obviously she puts him front and centre on social media and doesn’t stop talking about him. the irony is he looks almost exactly like the dude from her “queer couple” post but is a different man entirely
  • and below you will see examples of a rich white suburban straight internet personality using the now-vague, watered down “queer” and “gay” labels to take advantage of a vulnerable group of viewers and seem relatable in their “shared oppression” lol

and yeah people are calling her out a little on youtube, but here, on this other platform, from someone who used to like her quite a bit and hope she would change in the future: jillian vessey (pixielocks) is one of the most spoiled, unbearable, greedy and desperate try-hards on youtube, a cursory google search should reveal her as a personification of the modern “queer community” and if you’re watching her videos or buying her merch, you should probably stop now.

Can you believe this is a different boyfriend?? Lgbt couple uwu

Also:

Being straight is bi culture lmao