toppdyke:

lez-exclude-men:

toppdyke:

lez-exclude-men:

samesexattraction:

anekmehkt:

toppdyke:

MORE FAKEFEM AIDEN WITH THIER DICKWORSHIPPING DEMANDS

NO I DON’T CARE ABOUT YOUR TRANS CULT MALE WANNEB CRAP

I FIGHT FOR SOLEY  FOR WOMEN & GIRLS NOT YOU AIDEN ASSHOLES WHO THINK YOU ARE NOT INCLUDED BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT LIKE OTHER GIRLS –NEWS FLASH YOU ARE  JUST LIKE ALL OTHER WOMEN TO ME TOUGH DEAL WITH IT.

I HATE MEN  AND AS LONG  AS YOU CARE  MORE ABOUT YOUR TRANSCULT STATUS & MALE WANNABE BULLSHIT I DON’T WANT YOU ANYWHERE NEAR ME OR OUR MOVEMENT WHICH IS ANTI-GENDERSHIT AS DEFAULT. 

GENDER  HARMS  WOMEN AS IS PRETENDING MEN CAN BE RADFEM OR LESBIANS. I’M NOT FUCKING PLAYING ALONG WITH YOUR INSANITY. NOR DO I WANT TO PROMOTE YOUR SEXIST SELF HARMING VIEWS ON WOMEN/GIRLS IN RADICAL FEMINISM THAT NEED PROTECTION FROM TRANSING THEMSELVES FOR NOT FITTING GENDER ROLES LIKE YOU CHOICE TO DO.  

YOU ARE THE ASSHOLE WITH NO RESPECT FOR WOMEN WHO WANTS TO ID AS ONE OF OUR OPPRESSORS. GO JOIN THE MRA.   

TRUST ME I DON’T OWE YOU SHIT  OR RESPECT ANY OF YOUR DICK WORSHIPPING  GENDER SHYT AIDEN ASSHOLE NONSENSE.

DIE MAD  HAND M”AIDENS

A real gender-noncomforming Female acknowledges her sex, sex based oppression and dresses how she pleases. Because she knows that wearing pants, a suit, a tuxedo will not change her sex and she knows that Females are capable of being stronger or as strong, smart and brave as a man without conforming to gender bias.

@samesexattraction You however, encorage gender bias that harms us. Thanks for nothing.

can’t believe i’m famous enough that toppdyke called me, a detransitioned butch woman, an aiden for saying empathy is good

also, “l FIGHT FOR SOLEY  FOR WOMEN & GIRLS NOT YOU AIDEN ASSHOLES WHO THINK YOU ARE NOT INCLUDED BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT LIKE OTHER GIRLS –NEWS FLASH YOU ARE  JUST LIKE ALL OTHER WOMEN TO ME TOUGH DEAL WITH IT.” choose one u idiot: either you fight for women “not you aiden assholes” [meaning trans men ARENT women] OR trans men are “just like all other women” to her 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

And look a female who’s alienated from her/his sex is not going to decide to detransition from living as a guy, accept being female, or look nicely at radical feminism if we’re being rude and mean for no good reason. And op you said you had a problem with them “identifying as one of our oppressors”… well guess who else does that? Closeted lesbians. Poc who “act white”. It’s almost instinctual to try and blend in so you don’t get attacked. Yes, it can be taken too far, but just by camouflaging themselves they’re not harming us. We call out the “ex-gays” who try and convert us, but we don’t hate on a lesbian just for pretending to be straight. Some oppressed people have some internalized mess to work through and some are just trying to survive. Being unnecessarily mean and rude to trans men is actually misogynistic, because you’re downplaying the ways our oppression can affect us, and the real struggles dysphoric peeps face. I’m not saying we start saying “pregnant people” or anything, just that, on an individual level, we be respectful and try to understand where they’re coming from.

I know exactly where this fakefem shit is coming from and that it doesn’t belong in radical feminism.

You are so self centered you pretend only Aidens face this shit No they don’t so either join in the battle with other women against gender roles or stfu.

Yes pretending men can be lesbians harms me directly yes pretending gender roles allow men into radical feminism hurts our movement. I swear Aidens are soo self centered they don’t give a damn about other women yet expect other women to cater to them.

No it won’t happen with me either we are on eqaul footing or gtfo of my face.

Ps don’t ever talk to me like i don’t know the struggle of butch lesbian women myself personally.

Okay one I don’t know what an “aiden” is, two, literally none of this is about me. I’m not dysphoric, I’ve never transitioned nor wanted too. I’m just sympathetic to my sisters who are or have. YOU are the one pulling fakefem shit bc YOU are not listening to the struggles of YOUR SISTERS. Listen to other women, support them. Ever met a trans butch female? A butch lesbian who walks the line of being a trans man, and recognizes her/his sex, but may use male pronouns or get top surgery, etc. Trans butches have existed for as long as the butch identity has, and you would have me disrespect them? Butches are my sisters and partners, and I as a femme will not although them to be disrespected. So YOU listen or gtfo

Trans is not real fakefem and neither is her delusional manhood so fuck off. You can be that femme that worship fake dicks all you want but this harms real proud butch women who don’t have to put up with thier or yr male worshipping bullshit.

Radical feminism is not about gendershit nonsense. We know the real meanings of words here.

I don’t worship fake dicks unless it’s plastic sister. Quit acting like you know me and pulling these ridiculous hot takes just because you don’t want to give some basic respect to individual women who’ve got shit going on. And if you’re a butch like you claim, learn some of our butch/femme history or go home. Butches passing as men used to be a matter of survival. I don’t see how recognizing and respecting that harms butches now. And you of all people should know NOTHING about lesbianism is “male worshipping”.

Source: toppdyke

emphasis-all-mine:

jenroses:

cherryaid-fountain:

jemthecrystalgem:

neptunes-salty-butthole:

cheshiretiffy:

pats-a-lats:

Things just transpired in my house hold that are equal parts offensive and hilarious… Here goes.

So my roommate, Dale, has a gf who does not live with us, but she’s here all the time. So Sunday when my gf was her we were on the couch and we kissed (scandalous, I know) and she saw it, and I’m pretty sure that’s the first time she’s seen us be affectionate, that’s neither here nor there.

So today she tells Dale she’s “uncomfortable” here and wants him to move out because she thinks me and my lady are going to hit on her or something, she doesn’t like living with lesbians, cause it’s not “normal”, so now I’m pissed. Then, Dale goes, “well you don’t live here, so it shouldn’t be a problem, just stop coming over”…things escalated and Dale is trying to break up with her, but she won’t leave our house….she locked herself in Dales room.

So, Dale barges in my room wearing a bathrobe and goes, “call every lesbian you know, we’re smoking this bitch out!” Then turns around and whips his robe like a cape…

And that’s the story of how there are 8 lesbians climbing through the window of Dales room…

Holy shit.

This is glorious

I like Dale. He’d break up with a bigoted girlfriend and he wears bathrobes like a cape. Not everyone would wear a bathrobe like a cape.

Some heros wear capes

I… have only seen this in screenshots.

I never knew Let’s Go Lesbians was based on a true story.

toppdyke:

lez-exclude-men:

samesexattraction:

anekmehkt:

toppdyke:

MORE FAKEFEM AIDEN WITH THIER DICKWORSHIPPING DEMANDS

NO I DON’T CARE ABOUT YOUR TRANS CULT MALE WANNEB CRAP

I FIGHT FOR SOLEY  FOR WOMEN & GIRLS NOT YOU AIDEN ASSHOLES WHO THINK YOU ARE NOT INCLUDED BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT LIKE OTHER GIRLS –NEWS FLASH YOU ARE  JUST LIKE ALL OTHER WOMEN TO ME TOUGH DEAL WITH IT.

I HATE MEN  AND AS LONG  AS YOU CARE  MORE ABOUT YOUR TRANSCULT STATUS & MALE WANNABE BULLSHIT I DON’T WANT YOU ANYWHERE NEAR ME OR OUR MOVEMENT WHICH IS ANTI-GENDERSHIT AS DEFAULT. 

GENDER  HARMS  WOMEN AS IS PRETENDING MEN CAN BE RADFEM OR LESBIANS. I’M NOT FUCKING PLAYING ALONG WITH YOUR INSANITY. NOR DO I WANT TO PROMOTE YOUR SEXIST SELF HARMING VIEWS ON WOMEN/GIRLS IN RADICAL FEMINISM THAT NEED PROTECTION FROM TRANSING THEMSELVES FOR NOT FITTING GENDER ROLES LIKE YOU CHOICE TO DO.  

YOU ARE THE ASSHOLE WITH NO RESPECT FOR WOMEN WHO WANTS TO ID AS ONE OF OUR OPPRESSORS. GO JOIN THE MRA.   

TRUST ME I DON’T OWE YOU SHIT  OR RESPECT ANY OF YOUR DICK WORSHIPPING  GENDER SHYT AIDEN ASSHOLE NONSENSE.

DIE MAD  HAND M”AIDENS

A real gender-noncomforming Female acknowledges her sex, sex based oppression and dresses how she pleases. Because she knows that wearing pants, a suit, a tuxedo will not change her sex and she knows that Females are capable of being stronger or as strong, smart and brave as a man without conforming to gender bias.

@samesexattraction You however, encorage gender bias that harms us. Thanks for nothing.

can’t believe i’m famous enough that toppdyke called me, a detransitioned butch woman, an aiden for saying empathy is good

also, “l FIGHT FOR SOLEY  FOR WOMEN & GIRLS NOT YOU AIDEN ASSHOLES WHO THINK YOU ARE NOT INCLUDED BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT LIKE OTHER GIRLS –NEWS FLASH YOU ARE  JUST LIKE ALL OTHER WOMEN TO ME TOUGH DEAL WITH IT.” choose one u idiot: either you fight for women “not you aiden assholes” [meaning trans men ARENT women] OR trans men are “just like all other women” to her 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

And look a female who’s alienated from her/his sex is not going to decide to detransition from living as a guy, accept being female, or look nicely at radical feminism if we’re being rude and mean for no good reason. And op you said you had a problem with them “identifying as one of our oppressors”… well guess who else does that? Closeted lesbians. Poc who “act white”. It’s almost instinctual to try and blend in so you don’t get attacked. Yes, it can be taken too far, but just by camouflaging themselves they’re not harming us. We call out the “ex-gays” who try and convert us, but we don’t hate on a lesbian just for pretending to be straight. Some oppressed people have some internalized mess to work through and some are just trying to survive. Being unnecessarily mean and rude to trans men is actually misogynistic, because you’re downplaying the ways our oppression can affect us, and the real struggles dysphoric peeps face. I’m not saying we start saying “pregnant people” or anything, just that, on an individual level, we be respectful and try to understand where they’re coming from.

I know exactly where this fakefem shit is coming from and that it doesn’t belong in radical feminism.

You are so self centered you pretend only Aidens face this shit No they don’t so either join in the battle with other women against gender roles or stfu.

Yes pretending men can be lesbians harms me directly yes pretending gender roles allow men into radical feminism hurts our movement. I swear Aidens are soo self centered they don’t give a damn about other women yet expect other women to cater to them.

No it won’t happen with me either we are on eqaul footing or gtfo of my face.

Ps don’t ever talk to me like i don’t know the struggle of butch lesbian women myself personally.

Okay one I don’t know what an “aiden” is, two, literally none of this is about me. I’m not dysphoric, I’ve never transitioned nor wanted too. I’m just sympathetic to my sisters who are or have. YOU are the one pulling fakefem shit bc YOU are not listening to the struggles of YOUR SISTERS. Listen to other women, support them. Ever met a trans butch female? A butch lesbian who walks the line of being a trans man, and recognizes her/his sex, but may use male pronouns or get top surgery, etc. Trans butches have existed for as long as the butch identity has, and you would have me disrespect them? Butches are my sisters and partners, and I as a femme will not although them to be disrespected. So YOU listen or gtfo

Source: toppdyke

falinefemme:

things that are normal for women and girls, but shouldn’t be

  • dreading and feeling embarrassed by your period
  • feeling discomfort with being female
  • hating your body

things that are normal for women and girls, and should be

  • wanting to dress and act in a typically masculine way
  • not wanting to wear makeup
  • not wanting to shave

lez-exclude-men:

Honestly, I wouldn’t mind the gender nonsense so much if we went back to “sex and gender are distinct things and yes I’m female but I identify as a man” bc then at least it wouldn’t be so dangerous to women. I’d still roll my eyes at nonbinary peeps and “starself” but at the end of the day it probably wouldn’t affect people outside of their social circle. Trying to abolish sex-based identifiers on a legal level and saying “sex is a social construct/it doesn’t exist” HURTS PEOPLE. ESPECIALLY WOMEN. We have spent so much time fighting for protections from sex-based oppression, yet in one fell swoop genderists are trying to destroy all of that work by erasing the concept of sex on both the social and legal levels. It’s ridiculous.

@shadows-and-starlight

A) what are you talking about? What work of hers have I deemed politically irrelevant?

B) why should I care what she might think? While she’s done a lot and is successful she’s not a goddess or even someone I idolize or really even keep up with tbh so…??

samesexattraction:

anekmehkt:

toppdyke:

MORE FAKEFEM AIDEN WITH THIER DICKWORSHIPPING DEMANDS

NO I DON’T CARE ABOUT YOUR TRANS CULT MALE WANNEB CRAP

I FIGHT FOR SOLEY  FOR WOMEN & GIRLS NOT YOU AIDEN ASSHOLES WHO THINK YOU ARE NOT INCLUDED BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT LIKE OTHER GIRLS –NEWS FLASH YOU ARE  JUST LIKE ALL OTHER WOMEN TO ME TOUGH DEAL WITH IT.

I HATE MEN  AND AS LONG  AS YOU CARE  MORE ABOUT YOUR TRANSCULT STATUS & MALE WANNABE BULLSHIT I DON’T WANT YOU ANYWHERE NEAR ME OR OUR MOVEMENT WHICH IS ANTI-GENDERSHIT AS DEFAULT. 

GENDER  HARMS  WOMEN AS IS PRETENDING MEN CAN BE RADFEM OR LESBIANS. I’M NOT FUCKING PLAYING ALONG WITH YOUR INSANITY. NOR DO I WANT TO PROMOTE YOUR SEXIST SELF HARMING VIEWS ON WOMEN/GIRLS IN RADICAL FEMINISM THAT NEED PROTECTION FROM TRANSING THEMSELVES FOR NOT FITTING GENDER ROLES LIKE YOU CHOICE TO DO.  

YOU ARE THE ASSHOLE WITH NO RESPECT FOR WOMEN WHO WANTS TO ID AS ONE OF OUR OPPRESSORS. GO JOIN THE MRA.   

TRUST ME I DON’T OWE YOU SHIT  OR RESPECT ANY OF YOUR DICK WORSHIPPING  GENDER SHYT AIDEN ASSHOLE NONSENSE.

DIE MAD  HAND M”AIDENS

A real gender-noncomforming Female acknowledges her sex, sex based oppression and dresses how she pleases. Because she knows that wearing pants, a suit, a tuxedo will not change her sex and she knows that Females are capable of being stronger or as strong, smart and brave as a man without conforming to gender bias.

@samesexattraction You however, encorage gender bias that harms us. Thanks for nothing.

can’t believe i’m famous enough that toppdyke called me, a detransitioned butch woman, an aiden for saying empathy is good

also, “l FIGHT FOR SOLEY  FOR WOMEN & GIRLS NOT YOU AIDEN ASSHOLES WHO THINK YOU ARE NOT INCLUDED BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT LIKE OTHER GIRLS –NEWS FLASH YOU ARE  JUST LIKE ALL OTHER WOMEN TO ME TOUGH DEAL WITH IT.” choose one u idiot: either you fight for women “not you aiden assholes” [meaning trans men ARENT women] OR trans men are “just like all other women” to her 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

And look a female who’s alienated from her/his sex is not going to decide to detransition from living as a guy, accept being female, or look nicely at radical feminism if we’re being rude and mean for no good reason. And op you said you had a problem with them “identifying as one of our oppressors”… well guess who else does that? Closeted lesbians. Poc who “act white”. It’s almost instinctual to try and blend in so you don’t get attacked. Yes, it can be taken too far, but just by camouflaging themselves they’re not harming us. We call out the “ex-gays” who try and convert us, but we don’t hate on a lesbian just for pretending to be straight. Some oppressed people have some internalized mess to work through and some are just trying to survive. Being unnecessarily mean and rude to trans men is actually misogynistic, because you’re downplaying the ways our oppression can affect us, and the real struggles dysphoric peeps face. I’m not saying we start saying “pregnant people” or anything, just that, on an individual level, we be respectful and try to understand where they’re coming from.

Source: toppdyke

theevillfemme:

“Holding her hand

I am the father of a graduate who followed in my footsteps

I am a mother smoothing the corners of a “My Child Is An Honor Student” sticker on the bumper of a shiny new sedan

I am a little girl rising from the ground holding a flawless four-leaf clover on the prettiest day of the year

But holding her hand

I am breaking all of the rules

And their eyes sting my heart like a ruler on the back of my hand

What did I do to deserve this?

Holding her hand

I ask them to expel me

Release me from their expectations of who I should love

But they say it only warrants a suspension

“You must—you will—come back,” they sneer

I know they’re not right

And I squeeze her hand tighter

When she takes my hand in hers

An Olympic gymnast makes her pass in the depths of my abdomen

But she doesn’t win the gold

The judges blinded by hatred

Their minds as fuzzy as my feelings when she finds a seat for her lips on mine in the checkout line at the grocery store on the day before Thanksgiving

But they are everywhere

They throw icicles at my neck when they realize that the hickey was given by the girl standing next to me holding a bottle of hard liquor in one hand and my soft gaze in the other

I fail, again, to please them when they realize I never dance with those whose voices deepen during puberty

No, I don’t play any games with people with apples in their throats

And these judges?

They own the orchard

They throw apples at us

They expect me to do the picking

Only after they have done the choosing”

— “PDA” by theevillfemme aka Taelor

oceanlesbian:

hmsindecision:

lesbian-lizards:

toppdyke:

hmsindecision:

Sometimes I honestly have to laugh at the ridiculousness of trying to mock or cheapen lesbian sexuality by calling us “vagina fetishists”. It only works as an insult if you are assuming that the person isn’t having sex with other lesbians and bi women.

Can you imagine, like, an actual lesbian being sad or scared that another woman was excited about her vulva? Can you THINK of a scenario where an actual lesbian would be horrified that another woman found her vulva sexy and beautiful? Or was disgusted that another woman would fantasize about touching her sexually?

To assume that being aroused by another woman’s sex characteristics is somehow dirty is really, really telling when it comes to how homophobic these little weasels are.

Like, if I’m in a relationship with someone I’d assume our vulvas are on pretty good terms

My gf or any woman I’m dating has full permision as well as my endorsement to fetishize my vulva as a given aspect of our relationship.

Hmsindecision once again brings up such a valid point. Honestly, the fact that my current girlfriend actually likes my body and is, like, eager to go down on me actually helped me out with some of my own internalized issues regarding my body/sex. The beginning of our sexual relationship was also the beginning of my path to accepting my sexuality and my femaleness. Sex can be a healing thing in this way, for myself and others it can help with internalized homophobia. So you know what? Anyone who shames gay people for being attracted to the bodies of people of the same sex are just cruel. Plain and simple.

You’re absolutely right. I absolutely detested my body and had a lot of hate for myself as a lesbian and one of the biggest things that helped was genuine pleasure and desire from other women.

I know on here I have called lesbian sex a borderline religious experience… I’m not joking, I think that it helps us transcend the pain that a homophobic society drapes over us.

When I first came out, I used to leave all my clothes on for sex because I didn’t think I was worth touching. Other women wanting me was exactly what you say, part of a healing process.

Homophobes don’t want us to be whole, it makes us harder to bully.

“Homophobes don’t want us to be whole, it makes us harder to bully.”

exactly. so when lesbophobes call us lesbians vagina fetishists they’re not thinking in terms of how we look at, desire or relate to each other. they’re trying to attack us at the root of our sense of self so that we’re too ashamed to explore this relationality. they want us to waste our energies worrying about how nonlesbians will judge us and further demonize us – it’s a good tactic, since most of us can’t afford not to worry about that to some extent. but they want that anxiety to consume us.

Since I’m with my family for the winter I’ve been around a lot of the Christian Christmas stuff, and im picking up on things I never thought of before, seeing as I’ve been away from the church for a good while now (thank goodness). Here’s a few:

  • People (protestants) make a big deal about “He gave his one and only son to die on the cross for our sins”… but they don’t really talk about Mary. She didn’t ask for a son, especially that young. It’s just assumed she wanted it. But so much of her life was affected by the pregnancy, I’m sure, and she must have made a LOT of sacrifices during Jesus’s life, and she was just a regular human, so surely it was a bigger deal than the sacrifices the sky dude made, right? In accordance with the poor women giving two pennies fable and all that… and SHE gave up HER son too, when he died on the cross (involuntarily even), but we don’t talk about that either, just about god the father blahblahblah. Why don’t protestants talk about Mary’s struggles and sacrifices? Phallocentrism, I’m telling ya, smh
  • People don’t talk about why Christmas traditions are what they are… because it’s stolen pagan stuff. Every other religion that I can think of, their traditions are symbolic, or have some kind of meaning to their beliefs. Why do Christians put up a Christmas tree? Shrug no one knows pagansssss
  • There’s inconsistencies between the Jesus Origin stories in the gospels, but church people gloss over them or just assume they fit together somehow.
  • Also the whole nativity with the shepards there (“on this night a savior was born”) is really unlikely… do you know what afterbirth looks like?? And how much worse it would’ve been then, in a stable??? Idk about you but idc WHAT appeared to me I would not willingly go see a mom who just gave birth in a stable unless it was to try and help her out and get her a real place to stay. And people were pretty misogynistic then, so why would these men want to do that? And why would Mary and Joseph let them in? In all the nativities I’ve seen everyone is calm and smiling and happy and things are relatively clean… but bloody and shitty and some yelling would be more realistic
  • Ministry programs for saving the children in ~Africa~ (they rarely specify a country, much less an actual area) are suuuuper creepy, at least that I’ve seen. I mean how many times have you heard one of those program campaigners talk about “they love the food and education and everything but one of them came up to me and said the most important thing was The Knowledge of ~Jesus~ they learned!”… usually white people too lbr
  • Organs are super loud and annoying imo
  • Quit asking how often I “talk to god”
  • Lots of good intentions/ideas wrapped in Christian Bullshit TM (food for the homeless, goodie bags for retail workers working on the holidays, gifts for foster kids, etc)

Idk there’s a lot I like about the holiday from a secular (or even pagan) point of view, but now that I’m free of Christianity I have much less patience for it the times I do have to interact with Christians. And this year I did interact a lot more than usual because my mom’s having a rough time and this stuff is important to her, and she doesn’t like going to church alone. So here I am ranting on tumblr lol

sandersstudies:

xtltokio:

marisatomay:

y’all ever see a sibling interaction in media and just know….it was written by an only child

It’s weird when sibilings apologize in the movies. Because sibilings only apologize when they did something really really bad, like murder someone or something, otherwise the sibilings just casually start to talk to each other as if nothing had happened.

Siblings in a movie making up: I’m so sorry I hurt you…you’re not only my sister, you’re my best friend.

Siblings in real life making up: Lmao idk if you’re still mad bitch but look at this meme really quick.